Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Imbibe
Friday, November 21, 2008
Ebbs and Flows
My wife and I just wrote her resignation letter for her job. This marks a significant day in our lives because four years ago she went back to work so that I could complete seminary. At that point it was a very painful, shameful, and depressing thing for me. We had worked very hard to get her home with our children and I simply did not want to ask her to go back to work. I thought I was a failure because I couldn't do it all. But God had to teach me one more lesson.
We tried to do it with my working full-time and her working part-time but I didn't have enough time to do what I needed to do. So without my asking, she graciously offered to go full-time in her job. She did that and now she has worked seven-on-seven-off for four years. The stress and hours have taken a toll on her health, but she has not complained. The kids have had to be without their mom and put up with a dad that doesn't always handle things well but they have survived. I am truly honored to be her husband and to have benefitted from her life. She epitomizes what Proverbs 31 is about and she inspires me to continue in this thing of ministry. I really don't know how I would function without her. She keeps me sane, loves me when I'm wrong, finds new ways to help our kids, and elevates others above herself. She is simply incredible.
In the next few weeks she will quietly resign a post that she has poured her heart and soul into - as she does everything she does - and will give up any career aspirations or goals she might have so that she can stay home and raise godly little people. The pundits will grind on in their cynicism of Christianity, the atheists will whine in their crass accusations against Christians, and vile heathens will rail against God himself. But if they would just cast their eye on the quiet Saints like my Tracey, all their pustules would shrink and their profanity would become empty. Godliness, Christ-likeness, and Love are summed up in a brilliant woman stepping away from her accomplishments to pour herself into her children. This is the summation of the Gospel.
I know I cannot repay the love she has shown me and it would be a poor epitaph to try do so. My pedestrian thoughts or thanks cannot begin to attain the heights of the love and dedication to me and the Kingdom she has given. So I ask God to reward her for her deeds. His is a sure and lasting reward. But what I can do is say, "thank you" and "I love you." Tracey, you mean more to me than words can possibly say and I thank God for you. "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."
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Thursday, November 20, 2008
God's Amazing Grace
Supplemental Information on Jonah
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
An Amazing Christmas
Christmas conjures up thoughts of mistletoe, parties, snow, presents, Santa Claus, and oh yeah—Jesus. It is an idyllic time where we strive for “peace on earth, good will to men.” We want to see the turnaround in the lives of people at this time of year similar to what happened with Ebenezer Scrooge in Dicken’s A Christmas Carol. We want life to work the way it does in Carol or in the movie It’s a Wonderful Life.
But of course most of the time, our lives are more like A Christmas Story (remember the little kid with Red Ranger Rifle with the compass in the stock) or perhaps more tragically like Nightmare before Christmas.
As a single young man, several years ago I found myself in search for the right episode or condition for Christmas Holidays. I began to plan it out so that everything would work just to my satisfaction. I arranged parties, scheduled dates to Christmas plays, went to see all the holiday movies at the Alabama Theatre, and on and on. And in many ways I succeeded. Those are wonderful memories. I highly encourage everyone to make the most of this season and get everything you can out of it.
But there was a certain emptiness which inevitably came upon every year. Here’s why: all of my activities involved only myself and how I could smooth over the loneliness and pain in my heart.
One year when I was about 25, I went through a breakup (one of many) with a girlfriend. I began to mope around the office and whine to my coworkers about this person when a woman I worked with challenged me to do something. Patsy suggested that I borrow a Santa suit that she had and go to the Children’s Hospital on Christmas Day. I wanted to argue but I felt rather exposed as to how selfish I was being so I agreed. Patsy arranged it with the hospital and on Christmas morning I got up early and put on the Santa suit – complete with pillow and beard - jumped in my little red Miata (yes I put the top down) and I drove to Children’s Hospital to see the kids there.
Please understand that they send home everyone they can at Christmas, so they are left with the sickest of the sick on Christmas day. Some of those children would not live to see another Christmas. One child in particular was the only one in the psychiatric ward. I asked about his condition and all the attendant would tell me is “he’s extremely violent and his parents abandoned him.” I sat with him for a while and prayed with him and talked with him. He was not mean or nasty to me. He just needed a friend. Every other person or child I met that day treated me like a king. They would hold onto me and ask me to pray for them. They asked me when I got in from the North Pole. There were so many parents who would light up when they saw that someone was willing to come on this day of all days to see their child.
I cannot remember every detail of that day because most of the day my eyes were filled with tears. But I can tell you this: I was changed man.
I did this several other times in other hospitals and over time it became more difficult to get in so I finally had to stop. It was always fun, however, to watch the reaction of people as they were on their way to grandma’s house for Christmas. People took pictures and waved and kids would shout “thanks Santa!” as I drove in the Miata.
It was truly an amazing Christmas.
In fact, with that in mind, every Christmas is an amazing Christmas.office at 228-1014.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Why do you need to know?
One disclaimer: this is more of a rant than I am used to doing, but I hope you find it helpful.
Why do you need to know?
Someone asked me last week, “Is Obama the Anti-Christ?” I am going to answer that question, but first I want to deal with the question itself. It is a bad question. Some say there are no bad questions, but I think there are. This is a wrong question. If you want to ask that question, then let me first ask a few….
Why do you need to know? Will it help you in your walk with Jesus? Will it make you lead one more to Him? Will it make you want to love your family more? If so, then let that be added motivation for these core things. But the fact is, most Christians want to know who will be the Anti-Christ for the same reasons others read horoscopes, tarot cards, or Ouija boards. Perhaps we want to know the future because it gives us a sense of power or control over our lives. We cannot face the tension of thinking that
The truth is that the
But in case I have not offended already, here is another offense: Christians should not care where the
But Jesus would not be swayed. In verse 7, “He said to them: ‘It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in
Paul had to deal with this again. In 1 Thessalonians he hits on this. People in that city were quitting their jobs, sitting on roofs, and looking for Jesus to come. Nero ruled and people were being persecuted: torn limb from limb, hot oil poured on them, thrown in jail, thrown on sticks and impaled, thrown to lions, thrown in the rivers, thrown out of cities. Surely, this is the end of the world as we know it.
Paul did not even touch on these issues. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:13 through the end of the book. Paul talks about the end and that we need to have hope. He talks about the end and that it will come suddenly. He says that we are to be in the light and children of light – not of darkness. That is, we need to be informed, be wise, be alert and self-controlled. Verse 8 is the key here:
“But since we belong to the day, let us be self-controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet. For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him. Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”
Faith, love, and the hope of salvation is our focus and what we encourage one another with.
Now look at the sections before 1 Thessalonians 4:13 and after 1 Thessalonians 5:11. Paul emphasizes to work hard, mind your own business, live in peace, and win the favor of outsiders.
When I worked for a large corporation, I went through a time where I had a great deal of responsibility and I felt like I needed to know everything that was going on in the organization. I needed to know a lot but not everything, of course. But over time I tried to worm information out of people and finally I overstepped my bounds and got into trouble. I was rebuked by a Senior VP – as I should have been – and told to get back to work and mind my own business. You see the fact of the matter was that I was not doing what I should have been doing because I was getting into things that were not my responsibility. When I reset my vision on my job and its goals, I functioned better. I didn’t need to know everything.
Is Obama the Anti-Christ? I really don’t know. Could be, but probably not. If so, then we have Revelation to tell us that God wins, Jesus cleans house, the permanent Kingdom is established, and we get to enjoy it. If he is not, then we have a while to wait. Some are going to try to use scripture to say that he is or isn’t. I am not going to make that move because I think that if I put my mind to it I could convince a few people that he is the Beast. But then again, I think I could demonstrate that Alexander Putin or the President after him is the beast and/or false prophet. They fit more of the criteria: they are from
So you see, you read your tarot cards and I’ll read mine and we’ll be in
