Singleness, Introduction

Since being named the Minister to Singles at FBCT, I have taken quite a bit of time to think (or rethink) my days of singleness. I was single until I was 30 and had developed quite a few opinions about the situation and what God wanted of us as single people. I have been married now for almost 13 years and have two children. So I am sure my memories of those days and my opinions shaped from my situation have been either lost or corrupted. But over the next few days, I want to rethink, rehash, and reconstruct what I believe about being single, married, and living in community. What do these things mean and what am I supposed to do to lead, help, and minister to those who are single? Anyway, I am going to try to think about these things and I pray for God's help as I do....